Ek Achhi Bahu-Beti Ke Lakshan
Vivah ke pashchaat sasuraal mein kuchh ladakiyaan sarv shrangaar karatee hain. saj-dhajakar galiyon se gujaratee hain. ajeebo-gareeb harakat karatee hain. asahaj lagane vaale bhadakeele-chamakeele vastra pahanakar baajaar ya kheton mein ya paanee lene nal ya koonai par jaatee hain. unaka uddeshy kya hota hai. spasht hai ki apane pati ke atirikt anya purooshon ko apanee or aakarshit karana. apanee sundarata tatha vaibhav ka pradarshan karana jo ek achi Bahu-beti ke lakshan nahin hain. yadi kahen ki pati ko prasann karane ke lie aisa karatee hain to ve ghar tak hee seemit rahatee to achchha hota, parantu aise lakshan man mein dosh ke prateek hote hain.
Ek Achhi Bahu-Beti Ka Aachran
Sadharan vastra pahanane chaahiye, chaahe manhage hon, chaahe saste. bahan-betee-bahoo kee najar saamane 12 phut tak rahanee chaahie. chalate-baithate, uthate samay dhyaan rakhe ki koee aisee gatividhi na ho jae jo kisee ke lie utprerak ho. stree kee galat vidhi se laphandar logon ka haunsala badhata hai. ve pareshaan karate hain. mahila ka hans-hansakar baaten karana utprerak tatha asabhy hota hai jo saamaajik buraee hai. jaise bahu-beti yaani yuvatee apane parijanon ke saath rahatee hai. aisa hee aacharan ghar se baahar hona chaahie. usakee prashansa sabhy samaaj kiya karata hai. any yuvaon ko usaka udaaharan bataate hain. yadi paitrol ko chingaaree nahin milegee to vah visphotak nahin hota. isake vipareet uparokt gatividhi karana samaaj mein aag lagaana hai. yah baat yuvatiyon tatha yuvaon donon par laagoo hotee hai. javaanee baarood kee tarah hotee hai. yadi koee chingaaree lag jaye to sarvanaash ho jaata hai. yadi chingaaree nahin lage to varshon surakshit rahatee hai.
Har Insaan Chahta Hai Meri Bahu-Beti Ka Achha Aachran Ho
Pratyek insaan chaahata hai ki meree bahoo betee achchhe charitra vaalee ho. gaun-nagar mein koee yah na kahe ki unaka khaanadaan aisa-vaisa hai. jab ham kisee yuvatee ko dekhate hain aur man mein dosh utpann ho to turant vichaar karen ki yadi koee hamaaree bahu-beti, ke vishaya mein galat vichaar kare tatha dushkarm ke uddeshy se kuchh atapatee gatividhi karake apane dushvichaaron ko prakat kare, galat sanket kare, aankhon ko chatakae-matakae, tedhee-najar se dekhe, aisee galat harakat kare to kaisa lagega. uttar spasht hai ki taangen tod denge. jo nirbal hain, vo ekaant mein baithakar royenge.
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